In the context of fat fetishism, the feedee is the submissive counterpart to the feeder. As part of this relationship, the feedee is fed, either for the purpose of gaining weight, or for sheer pleasure.

The feeding subculture is often denounced by the mainstream fat acceptance community as an unhealthy fetish. Since the submissives in such relationships are almost always women, the practice is frequently characterized as misogynistic or at least disrespectful toward women. Feeders and feedees maintain that their relationships are consensual and in no way unhealthy for either partner. These relationships will surface occasionally as news items, such as those of men so vastly obese that firefighters must break walls to get them medical help. Obviously someone is feeding them.

Because of their prototypical role in the subculture, feedees are often the subject of adult websites catering to fat admirers.

A feedee is a person who enjoys the act of gaining weight either sexually or generally. Although many feedees enjoy food and overeating, it is not necessarily a requirement to enjoy overeating to enjoy gaining weight. Feeder/feedee relationships are sometimes associated with BDSM. The feeder is usually portrayed as the dominant partner, and the feedee is usually portrayed as the submissive partner. However, this thought process can be misleading because the feeder is just as likely to be the submissive "servant" who pampers and fills the dominant "master" feedee's every whim.

External links

A site dedicated to the fetish

See also

• fat admirer
• fat acceptance
• gainer
• feeder
• BBW

Sexual fetishism | Subcultures | Fat fetishism