Boy

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A boy is a young male human (usually child or adolescent), as contrasted to its female counterpart, which is called girl.

The term "boy" is primarily used to indicate biological sex distinctions, cultural gender role distinctions, or both, but the term in also used, and enters frequently in compounds, in more specific meanings that often transcend the primary use.

By extension it commonly applies to adult men, either considered in some way immature, in a position associated with aspects of boyhood or even without such boyish connotation as age-indiscriminate synonym.

The regular plural is boys, but in street slang and hip-hop the off-beat spelling boyz is used.

Etymology

The origin of the English word boy, recorded since 1154, is unclear; it is probably related to East Frisian boi, Old Norse bófi, Dutch boef "(criminal) knave, rogue", and German Bube. These apparently all have their origin in baby talk (like the word baby itself) (Buck 1949: 89).

But there is a theory that English "boy" derives from an Anglo-Saxon word *boia = "boy or servant", thus explaining the English placenames Boyton and Boycott. If so, the word may have originated from the Celtic tribe called the Boii, who formerly lived in Bohemia but were driven out by the Germanic Marcomanni tribe taking the area over in Roman times. In the dispersal, many Boii may have become slaves or servants, and their name became a word for "servant". (The same happened later to many Slav people, whence the word slave.)

Scope

An adult male human is a man, but when age is not a crucial factor both terms can be interchangeable, e.g. 'boys and their toys' applies equally to adults, 'Are you mice or men?' equally to young boys.

The age boundary is not clear cut, rather dependent on the context or even on individial circumstances. A young man who has not assumed (or has been denied) the traditional roles of a man might also be called a boy. It may feel uncomfortable to a young male upon being referred to as a "man" before he believes he has assumed these roles, such as having a career, a family, a wife, and fathering children. Conversely, it may feel uncomfortable to a male to be called a "boy" if he believes he has assumed the traditional roles of a "man." In mother's/mama's boy, the word emphatically implies a male (minor or adult in years) who is too immature to be independent.

In some traditions boyhood is held to be exchanged for adult manhood, or at least approach it significantly, by certain in se independent acts assuming a role deemed to be typical for a 'normal' man (though there are limits) as marriage, fathering offspring or military service. Various cultural and/or religious rites of passage serve, partially or specifically, to mark the transition to manhood.

There is often a number of traditional differences in attire between boys and adult men, which may even give rise to a metaphoric turm such as broekvent in Dutch (i.e. a boy who has not yet 'graduated' from shorts to slacks) and in what is socially accepted as appropriate behavior, e.g. boys may be publicly seen naked in cultures where men are not.

In English, a youth or a teenager may be either male or female. No gender-specific term exists for an intermediate stage between a boy and a man, except "young man".

Many occasions occur when an adult male is commonly referred to as a boy. A person's boyfriend or loverboy may be of any age; this even applies to a 'working' toyboy (though usually younger then the client as youth is generally considered attractive). In terms (used pejoratively or neutral) for homosexuals such as batty boy (alongside batty man; from bottom) or bum boy age is not essential, but the connotation can strengthen insulting use.

A man's group of male friends are often "the boys". It is most common to refer to men, irrespective of age or even in an adult age group, as boys in the context of a team (especially all-male), such as old boys for networking of adult men who attended the same school(s) as boys. In sports 'the boys' commonly refers to the team mates; e.g. UK football managers quite often refer to their players as "The boy so-and-so" and this usage is by no means restricted to the youngest players, though it is rarely applied to the most senior.

In some cases, a word using boy is used merely to designate the age of the person, irrespective of the function, as in altar boy, a minor acting as liturgical acolyte. Thus the compound -man can then be replaced by -boy, as in footboy; or boy is simply added, either as a prefix (e.g. in boy-racer) or as a suffix (e.g. in Teddy Boy).

An adult equivalent (with or without -man) is not to be expected when -boy designates an apprentice or lowest rank implying specific on the job training if promotion is to be obtained, as in kitchen-boy. Similarly schoolboy only applies to minors; the modern near-synonym pupil originally designated a minor in Roman law as being under a specific adult's authority, as in loco parentis.

Expressions such as "boys will be boys" (i.e. a male always retains a tendency for boyish games or mischief) alude to stereotypically ascribed characteristics of boys abd men; in the term tomboy, a woman's (according to the counterpart-gender stereotype) uncharacteristically bold nature is even described solely by comparing her to a boy.

In such terms as 'city boy' or 'home boy', the age notion is at most anachronistic, as they indicate any male who grew up (or by extension lived a long time) in a certain environment.

Historically, in countries such as the U.S. and South Africa, "boy" was not only a 'neutral' term for domestics but also used as a disparaging, racist insult towards non-white males (especially of African descent), recalling their subservient status even after the 20th century legally emancipation (from slavery, evolved to race segregation, viz. Apartheid) and alleged infantility, and many still consider it offensive in that context to this day.

Specific uses and compounds

The following subsections will treat some specific contexts where the term boy is frequently used, as such or in compound terms, often 'emancipated' from the age notion as such.

They also show that similar semantic broadness applies to many languages, notably Indo-European; to avoid lengthy duplication, cases may simply be linked here.

Master was replaced (not for a slave owner or his overseeer etc.) by the late 19th century, as a form of address, especially employed by servants, by Mister (etymologically equal) for the master of the household and other adults, but retained for boys till age 13

Military

The term 'our boys' is commonly used for a nation's soldiers, often with sympathy. Given the physical demands of battle, recruits are preferably in their physical prime, but adult professionals remain included in the term as long as they remain in service.

In the Ottoman empire, the young, mainly Christian military recruits for life (often forcibly enlisted by 'devshirme') were officially called acemi oglanlar ("novice boys").

Thus boy can enter in the nick name for a particular nation's soldiers, e.g. the US (infantry) doughboy;

Furthermore, specific terms refer to minors used in the armed forces:

drummer boy
ship's boy is a minor in naval training; boy seaman refers to specific, low-paid apprentice ranks, notably in the Royal Navy; until the middle of the 20th century, they were the only Navy staff subject -like their civilian age-peers, at home and in school- to physical punishment, usually spanking, which was traditionally administered on the bare bottom (as in English public schools; the adults were lashed on the backside above the waist), either formally (ordered in court martial, publicly executed on deck) or, more often but less severely, summary; the same was true of a midshipman, also a minor, but indicated with -man rather than -boy, possibly reflecting their higher status as future naval officers.

Domestic, residential and similar 'personal' attendants

Houseboy, or often boy for short, became a common term for domestic staff, notably non-European natives in the Asian and African colonies, adopted as such in other languages, e.g. in Dutch and French (also in the Belgian colonies).
Bellboy was originally a ship's bell-ringer, later a hotel page
Busboy is a rank in restaurants etc. below (head) waiter, fitting for trainees but may be held by ripe adults, even under younger (e.g. better qualified) superiors
Page from the Greek pais, again in many languages, already in Hellenistic times paides basilikoi 'royal (i.e. court) boys'
Cabin boy
Hamam oğlanı 'bath boy' (also called Tellak) working in a Turkish bath; long also available for homo-erotic pleasure, hence still a euphemism for homosexual
Hall boy

Rural life and professions

Cowboy originally designated a herdsboy employed as cowherd, but lost the age notion, first retaining the connotation of inferior status, later applying to the whole ranch life culture

Commercial and other services

Often the term boy enters in positions of the trainee type, such as stable boy (a junior stable hand).

office boy and copy boy refer to a young(est) employee (i.e. lacking experience), in training and/or performing menial services such as making photocopies.
even into the early 20th century, the British empire systematiclly employed boy clerks, including a specific rank of boy copyist, recruited by examination (despite the name, requiring schooling) and reserved for candidates aged 15-18, not retained in that rank after the age of 20

Certain jobs require so little training or formal qualifications that they can easily be performed as student job, and thus tend to be filled mostly or exclusively by minors, as it wouldn't 'pay' to employ an adult at or above minimum wage. Thus an equivalent word with the compound man (or similar) may be the rarer one, or even inexistent. Examples include delivery boy, errand boy, messenger boy and various specific terms naming the product to deliver, such as paperboy (closest adult counterpart postman), pizza boy (alongside pizzaman).

Role play

In BDSM, the term boy, often in the deliberate misspelling boi, sometimes specified (notably 'domestic' houseboi), refers not to junior age, but to the submissive position in the role play (e.g. father-son, teacher-pupil, owner-slave) at the masters beck and call, also known as bottom, especially if this implies submitting to discipline by the dominant 'top' who may not only command and humiliate the boi at his discretion but even administer punishment (often spanking, making the term bottom most appropriate) at his (dis)pleasure, even undeservedly.

Non-function specific analogous terms

Boys, in the strict or a wider sense, are often informally referred to by analogous or metaphorical terms. The literal connotations, which may be ironical or downright pejorative, have often been eroded by common use. Some terms are unisex, with or without (at least historical) preponderance of use for boys

cub and pup(py) compare boys to the young of predatory animals, the slang tadpole even to that of an amphibian;
buck, another animal young, usually refers to a sexually adventurous male youngster
sprout compares to a plant's young shoots
references to the boy's generally lighter physique then a man include stripling 'slender youth' and -rather insulting- slang like half-pint or small-fry
more specifically, shaveling (or in slang shaver) refers to boys' lesser hair growth then men's before - and densification around puberty
various terms refer to children's, often especialy boys', lack of adult manners (e.g. snot(ty) nose(d) (kid)) or to often mischievous behavior, e.g. rascal, also by analogy with animals, e.g. monkey, urchin (as 'prickly' as a hedgehog); (spoiled) brat refers to such undiscipline for lack of firm upbringing

Analogous uses and popular etymology

By analogy boy can also refer as an anthropomorphic term to a young male (or any male) of another animal, either in general or species-specific; in the last case it may even have a specific term, notably derived from a boy's name, such as billy goat for a 'boy' goat, or tomcat (known since 1809, for any male cat; but just Tom, applied to male kittens, is recorded since c.1303)

Again by analogy boy can occasionally even refer to 'male' object.

Some words contain 'boy' in English 'by mistake' (folk etymology), actually referring to a (near) homophone such as the French bois 'wood' (e.g. in low boy, a type of furniture)

Similar originally youth-related terms

cadet
groom (not the etymologically unrelated homophone husband-to-be) originally meant young male, possibly related to gromet (servant, especially ship's boy), and only in the 1667 was specifically used for a stable man or - boy (even the last not necessarily a youth)
infant, originally 'child too young to speak' evolved to infantryman 'foot soldier' (also footman) and, in Iberian language, to the princely style infante (this, like the original meaning, unisex)
knave (Old English cnafa, cognate with Dutch knaap & German Knabe and Knappe, boy), originally a male child, a boy (Chaucer, Canterbury Tales: Clerks Tale, I. 388). Like Latin puer, the word was early used as a name for any boy or lad employed as a servant, and so of male servants in general (Chaucer: Pardoners Tale, 1. 204), and especially a journeyman. The current use of the word for a man who is dishonest and crafty, a rogue, was however an early usage, and is found in Layamon (c. 1205). In playing-cards the lowest court card of each suit, the jack, representing a medieval servant, is still called the knave
the term junior 'younger', antonym of senior, occurs in titles as 'lower grade', in terms of service years (not age) or even merely hierarchical, on criteria regardless of experience; equivalent is puisne
lad, or in the Scottish diminutive form laddie (recorded since 1546): known since c.1300 as ladde "foot soldier," also "young male servant" (attested as a surname from c.1100), possibly from a Scandinavian language (cf. Norwegian -ladd, in compounds for "young man"), perhaps originally a plural of the pp. of lead (v.), thus "one who is led" (by a lord); present meaning "boy, youth, young man" attested from c.1440; in Northern England, and particularly in the county of Lancashire, males of all ages jokingly refer to themselves as being a Lancashire "lad". Lass(ie) is the female counterpart.
minor now usually applies unisex, but historically there was often a different age limit (a remnant may be the age of sexual consent) or even a legal system in which women were never fully emancipated in the eyes of the law, and so passed from the dominion of their father to that of their husband
squire and esquire, both from Old French esquier (modern French écuyer), itself deriving from Latin scutarius 'shield bearer', originally entered English as a boy in attendance to a knight (like page), but were socially promoted and lost their age-connotation
swain, of Norse origin (sveinn, originally meant young man or servant, even as a Norwegian court title) entered English c.1150 as "young man attendant upon a knight" i.e. squire, or junior rank, as in boatswain and coxswain, but now usually means a boyfriend (since 1585) or a country lad (farm laborer since 1579; especially a young shepherd, cognate with Old English swan 'swineherd')
vassal stems from an Old Celtic root *wasso- "young man, squire" (e.g. Welsh gwas "youth, servant," Breton goaz "servant, vassal, man," Irish foss "servant")
Valet and its variant varlet also derive from vassal (above) and apply to male servants, sometimes specifically boys

Boys in art

Many mythological boys have frequently been represented in various arts, e.g. Venus' often mischievous son Cupid, himself a young god of love which he 'inflicts' an humans by shooting his arrows; in some style periods even multiplied as naked little boys called putti.

Sources and references

Etymology OnLine- here boy, see also other words
Boyhood Studies, website and journal for the study of boys
Boyhood Studies Forum discusses news items, new research
Historical Boys' Clothing

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